To change the world, you need to educate parents, rather than children
Oktay Aliyev

Human is born to learn. And do this at every moment of your existence, starting from birth. When I was born, my father was 61 years old and my mother was 42. The parents were not ready for their sixth child. Perhaps this was also a kind of life lesson for them. Today, many years later, I can say with confidence that they passed this life exam with flying colors. I received a decent education and it’s not about school or college. Education for me is a value system that has allowed me to go through ups and downs and become who I am today.

The importance of raising children

Looking back at my life, I am even more convinced that all the people around us are the fruits of someone’s raising. Therefore, do not be surprised by modern people: their behavior and human qualities are also a consequence of someone’s training. I am grateful to my parents for teaching us to value each other from childhood. From a young age, my brothers, sisters and I understood that we were already parents too: now one for the other, and in the future – for our children. Perhaps, then, our young minds did not fully understand the highest degree of responsibility for what a new human would be, but we definitely understood that the success of a child depends on the upbringing that he is given. I will say more – the people, thoughts, space that surround the child should help him find out his purpose, his individual program for self-improvement, and therefore happiness. Life was not created simply for the sake of living. Life was created for our learning From birth we move towards the spiritual world. This path lies through the material world, but how we get through it and whether we get through it in principle depends on our education. And its quality depends on us only from a certain age, and begins with father and mother. A man and a woman preparing to become parents already take responsibility for the quality of upbringing of their child – a new particle of the system of the universe. For this system to have a high-quality form, a clear, professional knowledge is necessary, which can only be obtained through training in communications and the relationships between them.

Children learn on their own

There is no need to teach children anything. They will learn everything themselves, looking at their parents and everyone around them. And yes, even at you, reading these lines! But everything, of course, starts with the family. I have highlighted the main principles that underlie a happy union worthy of being an example for children.

  • Intent. It is extremely important that future partners, or those in a relationship, before starting a married couple, should ask themselves the question: “Why do I want to have a family?” The answer to this key question will be the main intention that decides everything. If people have different goals, they must weigh them, sort them out and consciously make a decision – to be together or to separate in order to continue life on Earth responsibly, finding their like-minded person and passing on their common bright values to a new human.
  • Trust. This quality includes all aspects of life. Trust must be in finances, in relationships, in making decisions and in accepting your partner’s mistakes. It’s interesting that trust also needs to be learned and taught to children.
  • The ability to forgive mistakes. There are no ideal people. Every person will make mistakes, it’s simply inevitable and you need to be prepared for it, but it doesn’t always work out. All that remains is to learn to accept and forgive them. Children do not know how it is, so parents are always an example for them in this matter. Remember about it.

Functions of parents

The responsibility of parents for their children’s education is indeed very high. But there is no need to be afraid of this. Each of us, having the intention to raise a worthy person and working on ourselves for this, can cope with it. Parenting involves parents performing two important functions:

  • reveal your child’s predispositions;
  • organize a training program for him in accordance with his natural inclinations.

It is this approach that leads to the fact that people’s consciousness is completely transformed and opens up for us a completely different level of life – to the highest result with the least effort. These changes improve the quality of life in all areas: health, relationships with a partner, loved ones, family, and work. Family becomes the place where you want to be. The world is changing for the better. I have gone myself through a difficult path to understand many things and internal transformations, so I understand that an adult can change internally only thanks to himself. Children are more flexible and open to changes; they just need the right “parents” to guide them. Many years ago, I founded a charity foundation that continually invests in children’s education, developing their natural talents and helping them get closer to their destiny. This is only a small part of what can be done, but the road can be mastered by those who walk. We must develop in ourselves those qualities that help us acquire new energetic purity, change the world through ourselves and thereby educate people of a new generation – already happy and successful simply by birthright.

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